This is a season when a lot of things feel hard. Yes, I study patterns and big energies, so I knew this time was coming, but that doesn’t excuse me from being affected. Some days it seems like the whole world is on a rollercoaster, it’s stormy, we’re all being pushed around while we do our best to stay the course. I’ve been talking a lot about storms in general lately because this is where I meet people: when a storm has hit them, and in the aftermath they find themselves trying to reconstruct their life to be even better than before.
I’ve always coached people at this juncture, but my Sabian Symbol reading really helped me put words around it. For years the storms have been at individual levels, but now this is happening on a broader scale. Today I want to share a few things I talk with my clients when it comes to handling times like these.
First, no matter the size and scope, storms are tough. They’re disorienting, discouraging, and demoralizing. They feel so unfair, especially when it seems like you’ve been doing all the right things and you’re still coming up short. I’ve had plenty of experience with this and will share more in the future.
The thing about storms, however, is they can come bearing gifts. They can present opportunities for healing, growth, and reconstruction. Or they might clear away something that was no longer meant for you, but you were too scared to let go of. When I begin working with people they often start with, “why is this happening to me?” when they’re in the muck, and end up saying, “I can see why this happened and I’m so grateful for where it led me,” after we’ve walked through it together.
I don’t want to sound trite and pitch every bad thing as a blessing in disguise. I consider that the very definition of toxic positivity. However, storms are one of the ways the Universe offers us the exact redirection we need.
This is my specialty, a skill I’ve honed in my decade of coaching. I can read the situation you’re being presented with and help you blend spiritual growth and practical action to create a life that was even better than before.
Transcending Doubt
One of the key components to moving on from a storm is understanding the importance of transcending doubt. This doesn’t mean ignoring a situation. It means leaning into the lessons you’ve been handed and holding onto complete certainty that you’re still whole and worthy of what you seek. It means never once, for a single second, doubting you can still get where you want to go.
By instilling this complete confidence in yourself and your abilities you literally raise you frequency to go above the storm and move out of wondering, “what did I do to deserve this?” and into knowing, “everything that’s happening is for good and is guiding me in the direction I want to go.”
It sounds simple but it’s not easy to do this when you don’t have any proof that things are working out in your favor.
Methods for Transcending Doubt:
Mindset of Self-Leadership: Understanding that storms can offer opportunities for healing and growth is essential. Cultivate inner stillness to the best of your ability and ask for guidance. Acknowledge what you can control, and what you can’t. Take responsibility for your own stuff so it stops interfering with your frequency. This is self-leadership.
Complete Worthiness: The Universe loves you just as you are. It’s never punitive. Have complete certainty you can get where you want to go so long as you embrace self-leadership and keep your frequency high. You don’t have to wait for any external circumstance to change for your worthiness to increase.
Regular Reinforcement: Start by reinforcing your mindset every single morning. Anchor yourself in your heart space, hold the positive vision for your future, and know it’s making its way to you so long as you take action towards it. Create a connection to the unseen to further establish your belief in yourself and the guidance you’re receiving. Do what you need to reinforce this throughout the day.
Forward Motion: Keep yourself in forward motion each day. It’s the combination of action plus belief that’s going to help you transcend doubt completely no matter what is happening around you.
Moving Forward with Ease
My goal is for everyone to live with more ease because they understand the process of being good at life. It’s a process of building, healing, growing, and learning that never ends. This is a good thing, the infinite cycle of it, because it gets easier every time to go through it.
Coaching people through the aftermath of their storms is such a pleasure because I have the privilege of watching everyone move from doubt and fear to clarity and confidence. Embodying these two things in your mind and body help you transcend situations that used to drag you down.
In fact, when your grasp of certainty is so firm you can truly transcend almost any situation in the world that feels small and egoic. This is how people thrive in even the most unstable of times.
This Week…
If you’re going through a storm, or have just come out from under one, and are wondering how to move forward again, let’s talk. We can work together to find the path you’re ready to pursue and get you into forward motion once more.
No matter what has happened up until now, the future you seek is still there for you.
We live in a benevolent Universe, and it wants you to thrive as much as I do.
I’ll bridge the two worlds for you so you can.
Trust yourself and be well.
☀️ ☀️Astro update: Friends, my love of astrology and all the tools in the vertical has overtaken this tiny subsection of the newsletter. It’s officially all included in Let’s Have a Good Week podcast show notes! Every Monday morning you’ll get the podcast with your Big Energy Info for the Week & How to Use It to get your week off to a good start. There’s SO much going on with the planets and big energies this year. I hope you stay abreast of everything so you can use it as a tool in your life.
☀️☀️☀️ Have you had a wake-up call, or are just feeling muddled? I’ve been talking with a lot of people about making sense of these times and moving forward with certainty and clarity. I’m now booking for spring and summer and would love to chat!
☀️☀️☀️☀️ I have SUCH an exciting announcement coming up in early June! Stay tuned!