How to Love the Season of Love
It's a little cheesy, but sometimes that's okay!
I’ve created this space for the guidance I teach in my group workshops and 1:1 client work. My intention is to share simple concepts, in an inviting and practical way, that will help you shape the life you envision. I also include exercises to show you how to apply it to your life right away, because the mechanics are very important.
You’re never stuck in your current story, even when you think you are. Your life can be meaningful and fulfilling; you’re meant to live happily and with ease. It’s my mission to empower you with this truth.
I thought I’d do a little workshop about Valentine’s Day since it seems to be everywhere right now! I don’t know about you, but I can’t seem to open my mailbox without being inundated with gift guides, sales and more. I love all the ideas but sometimes it can be a little ugh.
I don’t mind the kitch of a Hallmark holiday now and then, but it’s taken me time to find a good balance with it. On Valentine’s Day I don’t want to receive or initiate grand romantic gestures with my husband, and I don’t really buy into the idea of the sweeping, expensive gift-giving. That said, it can be a really fun day for just generally being more loving toward one another. Speaking love, being love, and showing love isn’t easy for some people. Valentine’s Day can be like a permission slip for opening up a little more and setting aside extra time for someone you love.
Generally, I appreciate Valentine’s Day because it’s a great way to break up the hum-drum of winter. It gives us a little focus for the month and introduces some fresh flair when we need it most.
No matter what state of romance or love you’re in at the moment, it’s possible to embrace love and give the day meaning in your own life. Below you’ll find my tips for loving the season of love and making it significant to you.
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Loving the season of love can take some navigating. Even I find the Hallmark-cheesiness to be a little sickly sweet sometimes! Here are my tips for ways you can embrace it without overdoing it:
Think of the word LOVE and the things and people you actually love in this world. Write them down!
If you want to express love to someone, keep it simple. Start with a card or something similar. If you want to buy a gift, think of what that person would truly enjoy as a gesture. (Hint: Usually the simpler the better!)
Ignore what doesn’t resonate. Never feel forced to make a gesture public or do something you don’t want to because you feel obligated. Simply focus on what you love and leave it at that.
Take good care of yourself if you’re feeling alone or isolated during this holiday. Make a date to see a friend or treat yourself to an experience you enjoy.
The season of love is meant to be fun for all. Follow what’s fun for your heart and enjoy the time being.